Devin McDermott

I’m Devin McDermott.

Men’s growth coach. 5+ years helping men break free from porn addiction and build lives of discipline, purpose, and authentic masculinity.

1,900+Days Clean
155+Men Coached

I quit porn over five years ago.

But I’m not telling you that to impress you. I’m telling you because I spent years stuck in the same cycle you might be in right now.

I know what it’s like to promise yourself “never again” and break that promise before the week is over.

I did that for seven years and suffered hundreds of relapses.

I had no process. No guidance…
Just willpower and faith.
But neither worked.

What finally changed wasn’t motivation or building better willpower. It was understanding.

Once I learned what was actually happening in my brain and got the right tools and support, everything shifted.

Not overnight, but once I figured out what was missing… I’ve never looked back and life has been infinitely better ever since I quit.

That experience is why I do this work.

For over five years, I’ve coached 155+ men through the same transition. Fathers, executives, engineers, military, college students. Men with 5-year habits and men with 25-year habits.

The specifics differ, but the mechanism is the same.

My approach is built on neuroscience, not shame.

I don’t tell you to “just stop.” I show you how your brain got rewired, give you specific tools to interrupt the pattern, and walk you through building a life where porn simply isn’t part of the equation anymore.

I run the Magnetic Man newsletter, reaching thousands of men daily with science-backed insights on quitting porn, dopamine, and discipline. I built the BeFree app as an entry point for men ready to start. And through Neural Reset Mentorship, I work 1-on-1 with men who are ready to quit for good.

If you found my site, something brought you here. Trust that.

What I Believe

Porn addiction isn’t a character flaw. It’s a neurological pattern that can be rewired with the right tools and the right guidance.

Willpower isn’t the answer. Understanding is.

Every man who quits porn doesn’t just free himself. He becomes a better partner, father, leader, and human being.

Connect With Me

Newsletter: Magnetic Man

App: BeFree

X/Twitter: @devinmcdermott

Instagram: @devinmcdermot

TikTok: @devin_mcdermot